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Riippuvuuden synty ja elämän pilaaminen?
06.06.2015 |
Antakaas mahdollisia syitä minkä takia päällepäin mukava, empaattinen, sympaattinen, kauniskin, tehokas työssään, hyvä äiti, kodista ja ulkonäöstään huolehtiva, muita auttava, kiva, hyvä ihminen ajautuu niin riippuvaiseksi jostakin (alkoholi, huumeet, pelaaminen tai vastaava), että pilaa loppujen lopuksi koko elämänsä sen takia? Menettää työpaikat, ystävät, valehtelee kaikille eikä ota vastaan apua vaikka sitä tarjottaisiin?
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[quote author="Vierailija" time="06.06.2015 klo 19:16"]
"All addictions come from emotional loss, and exist to soothe the pain resulting from that loss. Trauma and abuse, as we define them, are certainly surefire sources of loss but they’re far from the only ones. The human infant and toddler is a highly vulnerable creature, and emotional stresses of all kinds in the rearing environment can create long-lasting wounds in the psyche that a person will later try to soothe or numb with addictive behaviour. In addition to things that do happen that shouldn’t happen, like abuse, there are things that (developmentally speaking) ought to happen that don’t. For instance, any sustained sense of emotional disconnection with the parenting figure – which can often happen when the parent is excessively stressed or preoccupied over a period of time – has the capacity to have this sort of impact, especially if the child is constitutionally very sensitive."
http://drgabormate.com/topic/addiction/
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Ovatko nuo riippuvuudet siis yleensä seurausta lapsuuden traumoista?
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"All addictions come from emotional loss, and exist to soothe the pain resulting from that loss. Trauma and abuse, as we define them, are certainly surefire sources of loss but they’re far from the only ones. The human infant and toddler is a highly vulnerable creature, and emotional stresses of all kinds in the rearing environment can create long-lasting wounds in the psyche that a person will later try to soothe or numb with addictive behaviour. In addition to things that do happen that shouldn’t happen, like abuse, there are things that (developmentally speaking) ought to happen that don’t. For instance, any sustained sense of emotional disconnection with the parenting figure – which can often happen when the parent is excessively stressed or preoccupied over a period of time – has the capacity to have this sort of impact, especially if the child is constitutionally very sensitive."
http://drgabormate.com/topic/addiction/