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Alue: Aihe vapaa
Vanhemmat uhrautuvat laittaessaan lapsensa sisäoppilaitokseen?
26.11.2005 |
Tuli puheeksi tästä Kim Vatasen, Arin pojan kirjasta, kuinka vanhemmat olivat omasta mielestään " uhrautuneet" kun olivat laittaneet poikansa sisäoppilai´tokseen... Siis millähän tavalla ne ovat uhrautuneet?
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Oikeasti en tiedä, mitä tarkoittavat.Tuli vaan mieleen, mitä luin joskus englantilaisen Summerhill-koulun sivuilta, etsinpä sen tähän...
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17. Nowadays many people consider it bad parenting to send children to boarding school ¿ how does Summerhill justify this?
Ask the children! Summerhill pupils are not forced to be here ¿ they choose to be. Ex-Summerhillians all agree that being away from home was a really positive and important thing for them.
Summerhill is nothing like a " boarding school" in the traditional sense. It is somewhere between tribe and family, a sociable, child-centred environment where the adults are friends and where you can play all day if you want to. It is an enrichment of family life, something extra that you can' t get at home ¿ lots of brothers and sisters, aunts, uncles and friends.
[b]Some people say they will miss their children' s childhood if they send them to Summerhill. My answer is that childhood is for the child, not for the parents. It can take courage to give your children the independence they need, especially if this means they will leave home.[/b] But Summerhill parents will agree that you don' t " lose" your child, you gain a special friendship with them that lasts a lifetime."
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En usko summerhillin tekstiin kuulostaa ihan pöljältä...ikään kuin lapsilla olisi parempi lapsuus ilman vanhempia!
Sinänsä koulussa on kyllä monta mukavankin kuuloista piirrettä, mutta tuo sisäoppilaitosjuttu ei kyllä minua vakuuttaisi.
Alue: Aihe vapaa
Oikeasti en tiedä, mitä tarkoittavat.
Tuli vaan mieleen, mitä luin joskus englantilaisen Summerhill-koulun sivuilta, etsinpä sen tähän...
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Ask the children! Summerhill pupils are not forced to be here ¿ they choose to be. Ex-Summerhillians all agree that being away from home was a really positive and important thing for them.
Summerhill is nothing like a " boarding school" in the traditional sense. It is somewhere between tribe and family, a sociable, child-centred environment where the adults are friends and where you can play all day if you want to. It is an enrichment of family life, something extra that you can' t get at home ¿ lots of brothers and sisters, aunts, uncles and friends.
[b]Some people say they will miss their children' s childhood if they send them to Summerhill. My answer is that childhood is for the child, not for the parents. It can take courage to give your children the independence they need, especially if this means they will leave home.[/b] But Summerhill parents will agree that you don' t " lose" your child, you gain a special friendship with them that lasts a lifetime."